Wedding Fayre

So today at the wedding fayre at Newstead Abbey.

Firstly Newstead Abbey is a lovely building – I’ve been there before and been bowled over by the gardens and the building and so on. Today has been brilliantly sunny all day, and this just made the place look extra special. There was free entry to the house and garden, and the various tables and stalls of the wedding fayre were spread around the many rooms of the tour of the building, so people going this weekend got the tour of the house for free as well as all the various wedding industry workers.

We have the brochure for weddings at Newstead, so we’d read about what was on offer. It was handy to see the actual rooms. (100 people? In here? Really?) But of course you can’t guarantee the sunshine for the event itself, so maybe the rooms won’t look so amazing on the day.

The Abbey has some interesting deals on unseasonal weddings – if you book a ceremony whilst the house is closed to the public for its winter season, you can get exclusive use of the building. The flip side is having your do from October to March. The building and grounds are owned by Nottingham City Council (bizarrely, given that they are miles outside the boundary of the city!) – this year’s tough budget has meant closing the building midweek. Which, they think, might open up opportunities for midweek weddings. Which sounded tempting til we remembered some of our teacher friends who just wouldn’t be able to come if we did that.

Plenty of the things that were there we could rule out straightaway: ladies’ fancy under-garments. Dresses of any sort, including the pointless and pricey chair-dresses, for people who like wasting money and don’t like folding chairs. We’ve pretty much ruled out having fancy cars (but have no idea on how we’d get there and whether we’d travel separately). Some of the things looked really tempting: giant chocolate fountain, for starters…

Got into a long conversation with one particular photography company who I really seemed to click with. Their display photos really popped out at me, and the person on their table was really nice, and we had a great conversation with her. I walked away saying “well, if nothing else, we’ve chosen the photographer…” To be honest, it was probably the fact that somehow the conversation strayed into blogging and twitter… We never actually talked prices, but they gave us a goody bag to take away, and feeling like a decision had been made, we didn’t talk to any of the other photographers. When just now I checked the prices, I was a little surprised at how high they were, but since we hadn’t spoken to anyone else I can’t tell whether they’re normal or pricey.

Since getting home, I’ve found their blog, website and twitter account, and there are more really good pictures – and in other styles too, not just weddings.

One of the things that I really liked about their portfolio were some absolutely cracking candid shots. I’m a big fan of candids at weddings, and have spent some of my time at friends’ weddings toting my big camera and taking pictures myself. I tend to figure that enough people are taking photos of the happy couple, so I concentrate on getting candid shots of other guests, and over the years, have had some lovely captures. Here’s a few:

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My glamourous assistant

Tweets on 2009-04-05

  • 12seconds – The best bells in Nottingham. http://tiny12.tv/TSNMW #
  • Hmmm. Is it chocolate banana toastie time again already? #
  • Whoever designed this sandwich toaster has obviously never had to clean a sandwich toaster. #
  • @iaindale you go to the flicks with all the best people. #
  • Ringing for Palm Sunday, but the huge motorbike parade down the A60 is making more noise. #
  • 12seconds – Motorbikes! Fahsands of ’em! http://tiny12.tv/QB0ME #
  • Really disturbed by the results to @IainDale ‘s EU vs USA question http://tr.im/ihjP #

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Tweets on 2009-04-04

  • Good grief! Someone’s carelessly left a 5m high giant pizza hut menu in the street. #
  • @lordbonkers regret unable to attend star studded prize draw this evening stop http://tr.im/idgU #
  • Bellringing in daylight. Spring is sprung! #
  • @lornaspenceley or a bin to put your cup in? (or preferably reuseable cups) #
  • Frequently bought together: The High Life DVD and Quantum of Solace. Hmmm. Really? #
  • Have bought bellringing software from http://www.abelsim.co.uk and am wondering about the potential for using wiimotes as ersatz handbells. #
  • @meryl_f Cat still with us, still barely eating, and, ah, digestive functions not working at all. Vet rebooked for Monday. #

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Tweets on 2009-04-03

  • @jamesgraham most dome tents stand up by themselves, and pegs and guy ropes stop them blowing away. On tarmac, no pegs. #
  • Vet has told us Smudge might not make it to weekend. P is baking a cake. I’m not allowed to call it a “kittiwake”. #
  • Trying not to laff on being told at a resident meeting that the Council is hiring dog poo hoovering contractors. #
  • Newswipe with @charltonbrooker has given me an image of Schrödinger’s cat that will stay with me. #
  • 1620 – a good year for questions. http://tr.im/iaZz #

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Tweets on 2009-04-02

  • @adamrio Probably for the best he broke up with Sam on ER then. #
  • Unhappy to hear that the latest Council glossy leaflet wrongly describes me as a Labour councillor. 😦 #
  • RHS Wisley is apparently playing extracts of “Day of the Triffids” to tomato plants. And this on the beeb long after midday… #bbcr4 #
  • @lornaspenceley They apologised and will print a correction in next one. Not gonna insist on them pulping and reprinting. #
  • Apparently the new US TV programme “Better off Ted” is funny. I can’t wait for it to be available in the UK. #

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Tweets on 2009-04-01

  • “Examples of tracts, which would not be appropriate, are extracts from the Bible, the Koran, the Torah, the Prophet, and Howard’s End.” #
  • Mood lighting. Candles. Incense. Right, that’s it, can’t faff about any more, I have to actually read that boring council report. #
  • @helenduffett mainline railway stations? #
  • Hmmm. Photoshop Disasters is a little ahead of the game: http://tr.im/i3IG #
  • @adambird http://twitpic.com/2noki – Wow, that’s amazing! #
  • I am definitely going to be in bed by midnight ^W 1am ^W 2am at the latest. #
  • Woke up to a text that said “corduroy pillows: they’re making headlines…” #
  • RT @willhowells RT @serafinowicz: Such a shame that April Fool’s Day has been cancelled this year. #
  • @rfenwick I was half expecting it to be the number for BERR. #

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Political leadership

A colleague has pointed me at a rather charming anecdote in a tome that was available at Bournemouth conference last autumn. The Politics of Leadership was a book available at a stand promoting Be A Councillor when it ran in London. It’s published by the Leadership Centre for Local Government, ISBN 978-1-84049-639-0

One of the chapters is called “Thinkers, fixers and communicators” and the author, Joe Simpson, explains it thus:

I think of politicians as thinkers, fixers or communicators. To be a good politician you need to be good at – at least – one of these attributes. To be great, you need at least two. In fiction, you might find someone who excels at all three.

But the real fun comes at the end of the chapter:

As an aside, the Leadership Centre runs development programmes for rising local government political talent for each of the three main parties. I recently asked each member of the three Next Generation cohorts which one of the three thinker, fixer or communicator categories they would ascribe themselves. The Labour response covered all three, but out of the Conservatives, only one person thought of themselves as a thinker – instead we had a room full of fixers and communicators. And with the Liberal Democrats, only one person (a party staffer) saw themselves as a fixer: most thought they were thinkers. Recounting this outcome to a prominent Liberal Democrat council leader, he replied that that’s precisely why he found it so easy to succeed in his party, always being the one person in his circle who operated as the fixer.

The predominance of thinkers would certainly explain why we get so many comments whenever we discuss just what it means to be a liberal in these troubled times.

So, dear reader, where do you fit in? Thinker, fixer or communicator?

Tweets on 2009-03-31

  • Hmm. Today’s afternoon play on R4 is about the Dewey Decimal system… #
  • @markpack There was a certain frisson in trying to remember Dewey codes before the plot revealed them… #
  • Hmm. Intrigued by podcast called “Kill him!” On closer inspection, it’s actually “Kim Hill”. #
  • Off to Birmingham to Be A Councillor. #
  • Wow, how long have you been able to get directly to platform 6 from the main concourse distribution bridge? #
  • Ooh. Burton on Trent is “a gateway to the National Forest.” Just “a” gateway? #
  • Leaving Birmingham New Street station. Don’t thing I’ve ever done that before. #
  • Avoiding Needless Alley. Hoping I’m on track. #
  • Roomful of councillors has made a list of 184 people who’d make good councillors. #
  • Boarding train for Nottingham. At least, train says Derby but guy on platform promises it really means Nottingham. #
  • Two of my three meals today have come from AMT kiosks. #
  • Apparently, today’s UK terror alert status is “Jazz hands”: http://tiny12.tv/MXVBM #
  • @toranika LDV’s 12seconds channel is here: http://12seconds.tv/channel/libdemvoice #
  • Scheduling loads of posts for tomorrow on LDV. Making up for two weeks’ silence. #

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Stop executions of gay Iraqis

Iraqi-LGBT reports that the administration in Iraq is about to begin executing gay Iraqis.

Urgent action is needed to halt the execution of 128 prisoners on death row in Iraq. Many of those awaiting execution were convicted for the ‘crime’ of homosexuality, according to IRAQI-LGBT, a UK based organisation of Iraqis supporting gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in Iraq.

According to Ali Hili of IRAQI-LGBT, the Iraqi authorities plan to start executing them in batches of 20 from this week.

IRAQI-LGBT urgently requests that the UK Government, Human Rights Groups and the United Nations Human Rights Commission intervene with due speed to prevent this tragic miscarriage of justice from going ahead.

Earlier in the month, officials working in the UK Borders Agency advised a gay Iraqi that they would be returning him to Iraq.

Sarah Teather, the Liberal Democrats’ housing spokeswoman, who is the Iraqi’s MP, is perplexed by a recommendation from the UKBA that the Iraqi conduct his relationships in private.

The document says: “Even if your client’s homosexuality were to be established it is viewed that it would be possible for your client to conduct such relationships in private on his return to Iraq. This would allow your client to express his sexuality, albeit in a more limited way than he could do elsewhere.”

Teather, the MP for Brent East, said: “Immigration ministers need to show some humanity. If this deportation goes ahead there is a terrible risk that this man will be killed. How can we possibly claim to be a country that values human rights if we are willing to endanger a life in this way?”